Hey everyone...
Mehow here,
When you first meet a woman you probably noticed that you have to do most of the talking. When you're doing most of the talking you're doing most of the work in the interaction. And unless that work is benefiting you somehow, you end up being a dancing clown that is just there to entertain her. Women love dancing clowns but they don't sleep with them.
Your secret weapon to combat this phenomenon is "self-amusement"
And in today's email I'm going to reveal to you three giant secrets you can use immediately to become "self - amusing."
(And I have a giant announcement below about our upcoming Vegas mega party.)
First off what is "self - amusement?"
Self - amusement is simply when the things you say appear to entertain you just as much as they do your audience. The audience in this case are the girls you're talking to.
There are 3 "methods" to being "self amusing."
The first and most obvious method is to make fun of/IOD her with anything you say.
For example, a ton of the sound-bites I give you in my various works are very self amusing like:
"There could be so much love between us... but you're way to librarian for me (IOD - indicator of disinterest to her)."
The second and not so obvious method is to pump yourself up/IOI yourself in what you say by using assumptions and talking about the effects of the assumptions.
(if you read the 10SSA manual you know this as "assumptive framing")
The assumed frame is that somehow you're really awesome - like your beautiful, a genius, hung like a horse etc.
So for example you can say stuff like:
"Don't hate me because I'm beautiful (IOI - indicator of interest to yourself)."
"Are you staring down there because you know my c$$k is black on the inside?"
But get ready for this, because the 3rd and MOST POWERFUL way to get self amusement going is by combining the two techniques together into one...
"I can't believe you just said that (it doesn't really matter what she just said) because now I'm going to have to whip out my giant c$$k (IOI to you) and beat you about the head with it (IOD to her)."
or
"Has anyone ever told you... how beautiful ... I am."
The IOD in that last one is because the validation of her being called beautiful got taken away and instead it got replaced by an IOI to yourself.
This is self amusement at its finest and it's a totally under the radar incredible attraction technique. Understanding the 3 principles I just illustrated should give your improvisational attraction skills a massive boost.
If you've been a student of mine for any length of time you know that I use all of these techniques a lot, particularly the 3rd one. The 3rd one works great in projections like:
her: "I'm an accountant"
you: "I totally love that about you ... that's awesome ... but it's going to be weird when you wake up in bed next time and say, "honey, there are 743 tiles in the ceiling."
The IOI to yourself in this is that your saying that she's going to wake up next to you in the near future even though you only just met. The IOD to her is that she's a dorky accountant.
Our Accelerated Attraction System(AAS) is rife with endless examples of these exact techniques.
And speaking of the AAS - the big giant AAS party is coming to Vegas on June 11th - 13th. The two days of AAS super-conference are on the 12th and 13th. But we're doing something really special on those nights - the 11th and 12th is the biggest infield party ever put on by yours truly, where you get to party and train at the hottest Vegas nightspots at your own VIP tables (on US!).
You see a few weeks ago I revealed to our top instructors what the plan is and now THEY ARE ALL COMING to Vegas to coach and party with you. Yup, that includes 3 of our top guys from Europe: Dave, Royce, and CJ plus myself and top notch North American instructors like JamesSF and StephenPHX.
There is only one way to get in on this infield event - that is call Mel in our office and nicely ask her to hook you up. Her number is 619-446-9878.
(and btw this infield is super-affordable and we are only going to allow 3 students per instruction per night)
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